There are simple signs that may tell you if you might have an alcohol related problem.
-Do you drink alone when you feel angry or sad? -Does your drinking ever make you late for work? -Does your drinking worry your family? -Do you ever drink after telling yourself you won't? -Do you ever forget what you did while you were drinking? -Do you get headaches or have a hang-over after you have been drinking?
If you answered "yes" to any of these questions, you may have a drinking problem. Check with your doctor to be sure. Your doctor will be able to tell you whether you should cut down or abstain. If you are addicted to alcohol or have other medical problems, you should not just cut down on your drinking--you should stop drinking completely. Your doctor will advise you about what is right for you.
If your doctor tells you to cut down on your drinking, these steps can help you:
1. Write your reasons for cutting down or stopping.
Why do you want to drink less? There are many reasons why you may want to cut down or stop drinking. You may want to improve your health, sleep better, or get along better with your family or friends. Make a list of the reasons you want to drink less.
2. Set a drinking goal.
Choose a limit for how much you will drink. You may choose to cut down or not to drink at all. If you are cutting down, keep below these limits: Women: No more than one drink a day Men: No more than two drinks a day
These limits may be too high for some people who have certain medical problems or who are older. Talk with your doctor about the limit that is right for you.
Now -- write your drinking goal on a piece of paper. Put it where you can see it, such as on your refrigerator or bathroom mirror.
3. Keep a "diary" of your drinking.
To help you reach your drinking goal, keep a "diary" of your drinking.
For example, write down every time you have a drink for 1 week. Try to keep your diary for 3 or 4 weeks. When you write down your drinks, use standard drink sizes so you can keep track accurately. This will show you how much you drink and when. You may be surprised.