Lex Larkspur
Lex Larkspur is doing “the whole West Michigan circuit”
of Pride events, attending festivals in Grand Haven, Grand Rapids
and elsewhere. After growing up in a small Michigan town with no
Pride celebrations, moving to Grand Rapids was great, said Larkspur,
because “all of a sudden, those events were everywhere.”
“Before coming to Grand Valley, basically all the queer
people I knew were online, and there weren't really spaces where you
could be out and proud,” said Larkspur. “I immediately got involved
here and made some of my first in-person queer friends, which has
been great. I think when you don't have those kinds of communities,
it can be isolating not seeing the experiences that you’ve had
shared by folks around you. But being able to get that kind of
reassurance and solidarity at Grand Valley has helped me feel more
normal, helped me feel like there are folks out there that are like
me, rather than feeling alone in a crowd that would rather not think
of you.”
A fourth-year English and secondary education major,
Larkspur plans on becoming a high school teacher after graduating.
“Role models in that stage of life are very important,” she said,
adding that she hopes that as a visibly out and proud queer teacher,
she will provide her students with a supportive space in school that
she did not have.
“I think the biggest reason Pride is important is
because the world’s not fully accepting yet,” said Larkspur. “Which
means that it’s Pride, in spite of judgment and a lot of political
action against queer people. There’s lots of people out there who
don’t want us to be proud of who we are, so i think its important
and really liberating to find spaces where our ideintities are
celebrated and accepted. I think Grand Valley is almost a beacon in
terms of supporting queer people, and Pride is a great way for them
to do it.”